Must read :7 Reasons Why Some Women Don’t Like Nice Guys- Dr farrah Gray

According to an article by dr farrah gray based on a study  from the University of Illinois that posed the question: why do women tend to go for the not-so-nice dude? The research found that guys liked women who paid attention to them, while guys that seemed eager to please put off a lot of women.

• One reason: women are by nature nurturing, and as one woman in the study put it, “I wanted to save him” when she was asked why she preferred the guy who wasn’t paying attention to her. She went on to say that when she sees men that behave badly, she thinks they may have had a rough upbringing, and that she wanted to “fix” him.

• Another reason: a woman may perceive a man that is nice as desperate because he is so pent on pleasing her.

• Some women said that they thought nice guys aren’t really nice – they are just that sweet in the beginning to get a woman into bed. It’s that some women believe that if he’s too good to be true, there’s probably something wrong that he is hiding.

• A lot of women have low self-esteem when it comes to relationships. They believe they don’t deserve the good guy in the back of their minds. Thinking that they are worthy of a real loving relationship is an important attitude that women need to have.

• Women also get confused by what they want and what they need. That tall, dark and handsome guy who is broke is what she wants, while the nice dude that’s financially secure and loving is what she needs, but guess who she will approach?

Women want guys that are, well, men. They want someone who is masculine and almost macho because they want to feel protected and safe. There is a misnomer among a lot of women that nice guys won’t fight for their “honor” if it comes up in a relationship.

They think nice guys aren’t capable of satisfying them when it comes to physical intimacy.

Must read :7 Reasons Why Some Women Don’t Like Nice Guys- Dr farrah Gray